What is the relationship you would like to have? Is it a relationship that all you do is go out to parties and take drugs, get wasted or relationship that you just post on the social media platform your status and what you have recently done with your companion. Do you want a relationship that mocks other relationships, don’t laugh cause there is such a relationship? For me, the best relationship is between a female pastor and a male pastor. Their relation is built on trust faith and true love. They believe in each other even when the other has no belief in themselves. They motivate each other and support each other when they want to pursue something like helping a friend or starting a business.
For me, the relationship I would love to have is simple and clear. My partner or should I call her my companion maybe sarcastic, positive, open-minded and thoughtful. The relationship should be about each other not about one of them. If I have a dream, say I do, she will be behind me in every step that I make. Every appointment that I go to she is there with me. Every deal that I try to work out, she is there to give her views and have her perspective be it bad or good. For me, every vision that she has I give he support and say push her and assisting where needed to achieve the goal. Every client she wants to pursue is there to give my thoughts that from my heart and that can improve her.
Such a relationship is not hard to find because I know that you are out there somewhere doing God knows what. And to be honest, that person doesn’t necessarily have to end up being my wife but if I do get such a girlfriend, I’d be really happy and over the moon about it. But lemme ask you this simple question, would you want a companion who is there by your side through thick and thin even before you are married? I know you have answered yourself with a big YES, then reflect on the relationships you have right now, are they in range of what you want. Are they benefiting both parties because a relationship is a two-way street, not just a single one? Not the male should provide for the lady, also the lady can provide for the man. The modern society that we live in has made it clear that in human beings, neither the male or the female is above the other.
If you want your partner to treat you like royalty then you should treat then like royalty too.